Guys, I’m confident that these traits:

  • Confidence
  • Calmness
  • And Coolness

…Are outstanding if you are seeking women – dating. If you want to improve your chances with a woman and you want to have more success in your first dates and future relationships, working on these 3 things can have a huge impact on your effectiveness.


Confidence when mastered will be written all over your face and your words. Don’t be wishy washy.. don’t be unsure about the things you are doing or your life in general. Know where you’re going, know what you’re doing and make that obvious in your words and actions. Learn to hide hints of having lack of confidence.. even when you aren’t 100% confident; act like you are.

Calmness.. no one, especially when they first meet them, wants someone too hyper or exciteable. Ease into the conversation and reveal the calm side of your personality first.. let lose as you get to know the girl more over time. Some won’t mind, but this will turn a lot of girls off if on your first date you are nuts. Chill out.. slow down. Be calm.

And be Cool and Collected. Don’t worry about stuff and don’t talk like you are. This ties in with confidence and calmness. Be strong, sturdy as a rock and show her that you have control of yourself and everything around you; be cool. It doesn’t mean you have to be “The Fonz”, but don’t be Erkel either. ;)

Work on it.. practice in front of the mirror. Become self-conscious of what you say. Even video tape yourself and play it back to see what kind of impression you get. Most of it is going to be obvious. Confidence, calmness and coolness are GREAT traits to achieve.

If you want to be successful with women, it starts by you working on yourself. Becoming a better man is not a bad thing; it’s all positive!

-Joe Taylor

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