It’s very easy when you are dating… and dating… and dating… to feel that you may never find the perfect match for you. You may be trying endlessly, but there’s always something that derails. Maybe:

• You’ve been cheated on… I had by several women; and those are just the ones I know about..
• Bad habits like making snorting noises while he (or she!) eats…
• She’s into that Feminine Domination thing.. I know how every guy is scared of that!
• He’s all about me, me, me… Muscles, but no brains.

The list goes on right? Let’s face it, there’s a lot of imperfect people out there!

The good news is all of us are fishing in the same ocean. Some get lucky and find that perfect mate when they are still in High School. But most of us don’t. And by the time most people are deep into their 20s and 30s, they have plenty of good and bad stories to tell.

I did find my soul mate until I was almost 30 years old! Yes, at the time I got lucky, but you know something? I was unlucky many, many times before that. I had dated a LOT of women. Slept with more than my wife likes to hear.

…Some were one night.. some went on for a few years.

But the only reason I finally got to where I am today is because I never gave up. Yes, I hit some low points, but know that you get over those. You CAN move on unless there’s some underlying psychological issue that can’t be resolved or is unattended to.

You will not be Single Forever!

One of the best golfers of all time once said,

“The harder you work, the luckier you get.” ~Gary Player

Same applies to dating and finding that special someone.

They aren’t going to come to you; you have to go after the prize. And you can’t chalk up losers and failures to anything more than you becoming better as a person, better at the game and becoming one step closer to finding that perfect course to play on.

-Joe Taylor